Recommended Resource – Born to Win

Born To Win: The Ultimate Seminar
by Zig Ziggler

About the Reference

Born To Win: The Ultimate Seminar by Zig Ziggler is an inspiring program focused on helping individuals recognize their value and potential. The program then provides insights as to how to unlock that potential by:

  • Achieving balance in seven key areas
  • Developing and maintaining a winning attitude
  • Building stronger professional and personal relationships
  • Becoming a better leader, employee, and parent through more effective communications

Benefits of Using this Reference

StrategyDriven Contributors like Born To Win because Zig recognizes what prevents many individuals from achieving their full potential and his methods provide real solutions to overcoming these barriers. His style and humor draws in seminar participants/listeners; making the principles presented easy to understand and relate to and the seminar itself engaging. If we had one criticism of the audio seminar it would be that the methods presented are not more actionably detailed.

The principles presented in Born To Win are well aligned with StrategyDriven‘s recommended personal performance improvement and leadership practices; making Born To Win a StrategyDriven recommended resource.

Pure Accountability

One of the reasons I have always loved high school wrestling as a sport is that a competitor lives and dies on his or her own merits… yes… females are becoming more prevalent in High School wrestling. One of the aspects of the sport that has always attracted me is that when you lose there is no one else to blame.

You can’t hide behind ‘the team’. You are out there on your own. This creates a certain sense of urgency and determination to win. It’s embarrassing to be beaten in front of hundreds of spectators… much less be pinned!

[wcm_restrict]The negative aspect of the emphasis on the ‘the team’ in this country is that people can point the finger at someone else for the team’s failure… and often they do. In wrestling you are part of a team… but there is more personal accountability because of the visibility when you succeed or fail. If every individual member of the team performs… and part of performing is working together as a team… the team wins. Pretty simple.

With the emphasis on ‘the team’ that has pervaded organizations more and more today, I see coaches/leaders less willing to sit a person down and hold people accountable for individual performance. This… along with our reluctance to make people feel bad… has caused us to overlook substandard individual performance. If people felt bad when they screwed up… they might actually start to perform. Like wrestling… if… when you lose… you feel bad… you will resolve to address what caused the pain of feeling bad so it doesn’t happen again. Don’t get me wrong. I am not advocating ripping someone to shreds when they make mistakes. I am advocating holding individuals accountable… like when you lose in wrestling… so you don’t want it to happen again. That’s what changes behavior! That is what drives performance… along with the positive reinforcement you as a leader/parent can provide when you see positive performance.

As leaders in an organization… we can’t be afraid to address substandard performance and hold people individually accountable because someone will feel bad! If we do… there will be no reason for that individual to change. Ask yourself if the people below will do what it takes to 1) keep performing well or 2) change what they did wrong to perform better and avoid the pain of failure. The answer is a resounding ‘yes!’ Why? Because they are held accountable… or rewarded… based on their individual performance![/wcm_restrict][wcm_nonmember]


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About the Author

Jeff Kortes is known as the ‘No Nonsense Guy.’ He is the President of Human Asset Management LLC, a human resource consulting firm specializing in executive search and leadership training. He has trained hundreds of first-line supervisors, managers, and executives during his career. His approach to training is no-nonsense, and practical.

Jeff is also a member of the National Speakers Association and a regular speaker on the topics of retention, recruiting and leadership. For more information, visit www.SlugProofYourTeam.com.

Rapport: The Key To Sales

Every sales person knows how important good communication is in building business relationships. But have you ever thought about what it takes to build instant rapport with anyone?

One time I was on a business trip, and due to a series of events I had to get a hotel room with no reservation. I called several brand name hotels only to be told they were booked. But I went to one of the hotels I had called and used some specific techniques to build rapport with the woman at the front desk.

[wcm_restrict]As we talked, I matched and mirrored her tone of voice and the speed in which she spoke. Almost immediately I established rapport. She told me “I’m going to do whatever it takes to get you a room.” Even though I had been told earlier the hotel was overbooked, I ended up getting a room.

Most communication occurs outside our conscious awareness. Tone of voice accounts for 38 percent of communication and, in face-to-face contacts, physiology accounts for an amazing 55 percent. Only 7 percent of communication is made up of the words we use.

One of the best ways to build good communication beyond our words is called Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP). NLP is a behavioral technology – a set of guiding principles, attitudes and techniques – that allows sales professionals to build rapport and trust, the basis for all business relationships. I have come to appreciate NLP as one of the most thorough and concise approaches for working with the unconscious mind – and consciously choosing behaviors that bring success.

The NLP sales model, designed to help sales professionals build rapport instantly with anyone, is based on the following five-step process:

  1. Establish Rapport: Remember, people who are like each other tend to like each other. Match and mirror the physiology, tone of voice, representational systems, breathing and key words of the person with whom you are communicating.
  2. Ask Questions: The questions you ask should be directly related to the business of the person you are interviewing. Speak the language of their business and ask questions that help you discover the client’s motivation, decision and reassurance strategies.
  3. Find a Need: When you discover a need, you can establish a value. Propose a solution to the client’s problem, and then ask “do you see any value in this?” If there is no need, stop there and find another client.
  4. Link Need or Value to Your Product/Service: Make a clear proposal for how your product or service helps solve the problem you uncovered earlier, without disclosing too many details.
  5. Close: There are many ways of closing the deal. Just remember that there are really only four objections: I don’t have enough time, I don’t have enough money, it won’t work for me, I don’t believe you. Resistance to your message indicates a lack of rapport. If that happens at any point, it is time to build more rapport.

The benefits of NLP go far beyond sales to help people grow from every single experience, achieve the results they desire and create a better quality of life. When it comes to sales, though, there is no better method to build rapport for business relationships.[/wcm_restrict][wcm_nonmember]


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Matthew B. James, MA, Ph.D., author of The Foundation of Huna: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Times, is President of Kona University and its training and seminar division The Empowerment Partnership, where he serves as a master trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), a practical behavioral technology for helping people achieve their desired results in life. To read Dr. James complete biography, click here.

Practices for Professionals – Sign Everything

Some find it very uncomfortable to “blow their own horn.” They shy away from the public spotlight and, instead, derive their own sense of accomplishment through simply being acknowledged for a job well done. Others, work for individuals whose personal insecurity drives them to take credit for that which is well done and overtly assign blame when things go wrong. In either case, the professional may find him or herself not receiving the appropriate recognition for their good work. This circumstance, in turn, often translates to diminished rewards; rewards that may be given to those contributing lesser performance but who are better at marketing themselves.

One often easy to follow remedy for this predicament is to simply sign everything. That is not to say that one literally hand-signs every document touched but rather that one’s personalized signature accompanies all work products. This can take many different forms, including:

  1. Electronic documents are distributed via your email account
  2. Hardcopy documents are created at your request and, if possible, are personally distributed by you. If not possible, hardcopy documents are accompanied with a handwritten note signed by you
  3. Electronic file properties are updated to show you as the author. The authorship property is revealed during several instances of direct and indirect searches and is carried forward to subsequent revisions
  4. Personally follow-up on those documents you have created to ensure they were received, understood, and any questions answered
  5. Present those ideas and works you have created in public settings, whenever possible. Seek to always present to seniors and outsiders but, at a minimum, present to peers and subordinates

While taking time, ‘signing’ your good work will enhance your reputation throughout the organization by unobtrusively communicating your contributions to seniors, peers, and subordinates; overcoming the need to personally advertise your accomplishments and circumventing the insecure boss who would seek to take credit for your excellent work.

For a Powerful Presentation, Begin with a Bang, Finish with a Flourish

Planning a presentation? Once you’ve analyzed your audience and determined what you want to say, give lots of attention to the presentation’s two most critical parts: the opening and the close. They’re the parts the audience will remember best – and each of them serves a vital purpose.

Begin with a Bang

Begin the presentation by seizing everyone’s attention with what we at Communispond call ‘the grabber’. Wake them up. Shake them up. Involve them. Create an opening that makes the audience members put away their hand-held gizmos and focus on what you’re saying.

Among the most compelling of grabbers is a dramatic story. That’s because everyone loves a story. We’ve loved them from early childhood, since mankind’s early beginnings and they’re loved across all cultures. Telling a story does much more than command the audience’s attention, though. It helps you make an emotional connection with everyone.

[wcm_restrict]With any audience, whether it’s one person or many, you have to appeal to both the head and the heart to be persuasive. You’ll find your path to the heart with your story. Every successful communicator is a great storyteller. Among today’s business leaders, GE’s Jeff Immelt and Zappos’ Tony Hsieh are widely known for their ability to connect with audiences by telling stories.

An executive in a power company who was presenting to an important sales prospect opened his talk with a story about a company employee who cut short his vacation and drove 300 miles to help restore power after a hurricane. The executive used the story to illustrate that the company prides itself on serving its customers. The story painted word pictures – the howling wind, the fallen trees that blocked roadways – to involve the prospect in the drama.

As you plan the story that opens your presentation think of how the great authors and moviemakers tell their stories. They portray heroes, battles against adversity and colorful settings. Let yours do the same. Keep the stories simple, though, and make them link directly to the major point your presentation makes.

Your story can be real or hypothetical. It can deal with history or what’s current. It also can be a personal experience. A personal story can let you project warmth and human fallibility if you begin by saying, for example, “Did I ever tell you about the time I fell flat on my face?”

Another very effective grabber is a question. It gets the audience members involved because it prompts them to think of an answer. You have to make the question relevant to the interests and needs of the audience, of course. And, as with stories, the question should lead into your presentation’s key message.

Addressing a managers meeting, Brian Halla, CEO of National Semiconductor Corp., began his presentation by asking, “Do you know what keeps me up at night?” Listening with their full attention, the audience members heard Mr. Halla talk about his concern about the economy, then lead to the need for managers to look for near-term opportunities for growth.

You can ask many different kinds of questions. You can appeal to the imagination: “What would happen if ….” Or to the audience’s self-interest: “Does everybody here know how to make a million dollars?” You can make them think, wow, what’s he going to say next if you begin with: “You know what makes me want to kill?” You can pose a problem and ask for solutions to it. You also can ask a series of questions that ask for a show of hands. Doing this will generate audience involvement – and let you tailor your presentation to meet the group’s particular needs.

Yet another good grabber is the startling fact. It can be inside information about the company or its industry or something that might be unrelated but leads to the point you want to make. Check out the search engines for ‘little known facts about …’ or ‘trivia about …’ for ideas. (Check the fact for accuracy, though, because you can’t trust everything you see on the Internet.) State your startling fact, and pause for dramatic effect before you continue.

Should you use humor for your grabber? You shouldn’t unless you’re very, very good at it. We’ve all seen presenters use humor that falls flat and immediately loses the audience. Begin with a story, a question or a fact instead. Whatever way you begin, though, be sure your opening makes it clear that what follows is important.

Finish with a Flourish

Plan your presentation’s close so it meets your objective, whatever its purpose. Perhaps you want to impart information – at a senior management briefing or a staff training session, for example. Alternately, you may want to motivate the audience to take action – to support a policy change or maybe provide extraordinary effort to meet a new challenge. Presentations with different purposes need different endings

For presentations that provide information you have to reinforce your main points with a clear and concise summary of the talk’s content. This isn’t the time to enumerate all the features of the product you’ve been describing – and especially to introduce any new information.

As you sum up, you can reinforce the points you made by continuing the story from your introduction. If you asked a question, reiterate the answer. If you presented an unusual fact, expand on its implications.

You can help the audience remember your main points with short catchy phrases. For example, the instructors in Communispond’s presentations skills training classes use the term ‘Turn, Touch, Talk’ to help the learners remember the sequence of physical actions for using a flipchart. You can create original mnemonic devices with acronyms and rhymes. The ABC song helped generations of children memorize the alphabet and ROY G. BIV remains an internal presence in physics.

To close a presentation that’s intended to move an audience to take action, you have to make it clear exactly what you want everyone to do. Spell it out, step-by-step. Point out the personal payoffs they’ll get by supporting your plan.

To get them excited about the plan, you have to show them you’re excited. Use a higher level of energy than you used in the earlier parts of the presentation. Move across the front of the room in long, confident strides. Emphasize your major points with movement of your arms and hands, head turns and changing facial expressions.

Continue the story you began in your introduction – and give it a really dramatic ending. Let it lead to an acronym or other mnemonic device that sums up what you want the audience to do. Once the audience is solidly behind your plan, ask them to shout back the acronym to you.

For whatever kind of close you use, be sure you keep a fast pace. Audiences tend to tire at a presentation’s end. Attention spans keep getting shorter and people’s work gets more demanding. You’ll earn points for keeping your presentation short.

And Remember the Basics

For your beginning with a bang and your finish with a flourish – and at all points in between – remember some of the basics of making an effective presentation:

  • Maintain strong and steady eye contact with one person in the audience at a time for as long as it takes to say a phrase, then move to another face; avoid scanning the room because this would give your brain too much information to process and increase whatever anxiety you may be feeling.
  • Don’t let your visuals dominate the presentation; it’s you who’s the star of the show.
  • Watch your posture; maintain an erect yet comfortable stance throughout the presentation.
  • Avoid non-words like ‘um’ and ‘ah’.
  • Rehearse the presentation so well that you can toss the script and speak as if you’re unscripted.

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About the Author

Bill Rosenthal is the Chief Executive Officer of Communispond Inc., an organization that has taught business communications skills to more than 600,000 persons. Bill is responsible all aspects of the business including sales, marketing, content development, and the delivery of Communispond courses by certified faculty. Prior to joining Communispond, Bill was CEO of Digi-Block Inc., a K-12 education publisher focusing on mathematics. He also served as President of Kaplan College, a division of Kaplan Inc., the well-known test preparation company, where he developed and launched the online college that offers Associates and Bachelors degrees and certificates in Business, Information Technology, Nursing, and Law. In a previous role as President of Ziff-Davis Education (now called Element K), Bill oversaw the leading supplier of computer training products worldwide and supervised the operations of ZD University, the leading web-based computer skills site.